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Attempting To Get Organized?
Take it ‘Bird by Bird’
One of the best books on writing – and life itself
for that matter – is Bird by Bird by Anne
Lamott. Among the pearls of wisdom she offers in her
funny, witty style, is to take baby steps. Apparently,
when she was a child, her brother was facing writer’s
block as he attempted to write a book report on various
species of birds. He was overwhelmed, realizing there
was so much to do, and didn’t know where to start. Her
father advised her then 10-year-old brother to, “Just
take it bird by bird.”
Wiser words were never spoken and not just about
overcoming writer’s block. The same can be said of how
to get organized. One of the biggest obstacles that
people face when attempting to ‘get organized’ is that
they bite off more than they can chew. They forget that
it took them years to get disorganized, and that they
should allow ample time to reverse the trend. If you
truly want to get better organized, the bottom line is
that you have to be willing to make changes in your
systems and the way you are doing things (or not doing
things), and you have to be prepared to act – to put the
principles in place. Be ready to put in the time to make
or break habits – psychologists say it takes
approximately 18 days to do so. Organizing is a way of
life that requires maintenance and ongoing effort until
it becomes second nature. Remember that change is a
process, not an event. Don’t try to change everything at
once. Pick one area of your life that needs changing the
most and focus on it first.
So, how do you take it ‘bird by bird’ when
organizing? First, do a ‘brain dump.’ This is when you
put down on paper (or on your computer, in your iPhone,
etc.) every organizing problem and challenge you face,
all of the tasks and activities you need to accomplish
to have a more organized home, office and life, and what
your organizing goals are. Next, get your calendar out,
and start scheduling organizing sessions with yourself.
At the very least, map out one thing you intend to do
and what steps it will take to do that, then schedule
them. Even if it takes you six months of
scheduling, in six months from now, you’ll be better
organized.
In order to stay motivated while organizing, post
your goals in a conspicuous place, especially if you are
a visual person. Before and after photos also help many
people get and stay motivated. Reward yourself along the
way as you would with any other behavior modification
program. For example, when you finish a certain portion
of your organizing project, treat yourself to some
stylish new organizing products, like bins or baskets
(or any other dangling carrot that works for you!). Play
music while you are organizing. Not only will it help
you keep moving, but it can also serve as a great timer
so that you don’t overdo it and spend too much time
organizing and burn out. When your favorite CD is over,
so is your organizing session. Lastly, consider working
with a buddy (perhaps as a couple?) in a team/group
effort (a family project?), or go to the pros and hire a
professional organizer. Involving others is often a
great motivator and keeps you accountable!
Where and how do you start organizing? Attack what’s
visible first. For most people, this serves as the best
motivator, gives them a sense of accomplishment and,
therefore, offers the most ‘bang for the buck.’ Sort one
section at a time, room by room. Try to finish an area,
project, or room before moving onto the next. Remember,
the space often looks worse before it looks better. The
process of organizing is messy, as you have to pull
everything out to sort, purge, and create new systems.
Stay focused by making a separate box labeled “action”
and tend to it later. Also, create an “out” box near the
door of the room you are organizing for items that
belong somewhere else in the home or work place. Do not
leave the space you are organizing to go put things
away!
I know it’s tempting to try to tackle the whole
house, office, or your life, but exercise some
restraint. If not, you will most likely be setting
yourself up for failure. Trying to do it all generally
leads to feelings of overwhelm and inadequacy. Then you
will wonder why you ever tried to get organized in the
first place, and stop trying at all. Instead, just take
it ‘bird by bird.’
Copyright © 2009 Lisa Montanaro of LM Organizing
Solutions, LLC.
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